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Dec. 29th, 2009 @ 03:52 pm
So I have this co-worker whose personality has really shifted in the last couple weeks. It was particularly evident that she's experiencing a psychotic episode on Christmas day when it was just the two of us.

She is having a lot of paranoid delusions involving lizard people, aliens, the CIA and FBI. She has shown an enormous amount of insubordination to our Jewish boss because he's a "godless heathen". She's always been a kind of new-agey flakey person, combining Eastern and Western spirituality in a weird, messed up way but she's really obsessed with God/Jesus, religion, Heaven, Hell and karma. She's constantly talking about Almighty God and Hell. She says that her dead guru is speaking through her and she's constantly talking to her in her head. On Christmas, she told me that there are many unseen spirits living in her home and in her body right now that are speaking to and through her and I've seen her talking gibberish that she implies is the spirits that she's channeling.
She is no longer performing even the most basic duties of her job and seems to have forgotten how to use most of the software (that she's been using for 15 years). She called another co-worker up and begged her to take her to the airport or train station but has no destination and just wants to travel.
She's stopped sleeping more than a couple hours a night and then drinks an enormous amount of caffeine all day long and has complained about worries of a heart attack.
On Christmas, she ended up sleeping in the building overnight because she feared driving home in the weather (it was windy but not THAT bad) and I remember her saying that night that the weather was a test for her from God.

This is just a portion of what has been going on and it is evident to me that she needs help.
I and another co-worker that she likes and trusts are intending to talk to her about going to the hospital and getting checked out. She has, however, expressed distrust at doctors and I don't think she'll voluntarily go.
Either way, is that the best option? To try and convince her to go to the hospital? Are there other places we can try to get her to go? Is there anything else we can do, short of waiting until she becomes a public menace and someone calls the police on her (she has repeatedly mentioned that a couple of our co-workers are evil and representatives of death and I fear that she will act on it and try to hurt them. I mean, she is constantly chanting phrases about God, Hell and death at them.)
TBH, I don't like her at all but she seems to like and trust me and if she'll listen to me I want to try and help her. But I'm kind of at a loss for what to do.

If she does agree to go to the hospital, do I bring her to the ER or elsewhere? We're thinking St. Elizabeth's because of what happened to Maisie at St. Luke's. Any other opinions on medical centers?
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Dec. 26th, 2009 @ 06:04 pm Oh goodness
Current Mood: thrilled
 It is not often I am this giddy after a movie. This made me very happy.

Today we went to see Sherlock Holmes. It was a great time. I loved it. It was just pure delight.
Clever.

Go see it.


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In other news....

Saw a kid about 16 walking around with a fully inflated blow up doll. What did you see today that was unusual? 

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Dec. 26th, 2009 @ 09:51 am Birthday Greetings
Current Mood: awake
 Today it is cake and presents for [info]isthatjamie  and I hope she has a most wonderful doing whatever her heart desires.

Best wishes. 
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Dec. 25th, 2009 @ 10:20 am The Morning Thus Far
Current Mood: happy
 Upon waking there was evidence that a cool dude in a red suit had filled up some socks. So being I was certain I was a good girl I went in search of a sock for myself. I found one in the closet. It was not for me. It was for Sweetie. But luckily he found one for me. I also found stockings for Tater and Chanter. So we all jumped on the bed and open our stockings. 

It was apparent quite quickly that Sweetie had a stocking on a food theme this year. So much for leaning out in the New Year. lol.

In my stocking was a mishmash of goods. A bookmark, food (in the form of nuts and jellybeans and a chocolate wine making kit and of course a couple of sacks of  M&M's), ITunes card, and a small square cat calendar for the studio.


Then it was time to build a fire in the wood stove and see what was under the tree. I opened the gift from Deb over at 

suresimple.blogspot.com/. I get the impression that she has noticed we are winos. Thanks so much my friend. Wine on the go. Now we just need an event where we must travel with a bottle. Does the living room count as an outing? Sweetie opened an envelope from his folks...who were not NOT suppose to send us anything...they didn't listen. So I have some coin to go buy some art supplies and he has another year of National Geographic. 

Then our friend T. gave us each a Starbucks card. And a book to share. The winner of the latest Giller Prize Linden MacIntrye's The Bishop's Man is now added to our library. 

The only thing remaining to open was one gift for Sweetie that was his very own iPod that the fur heads got from all there cuteness moments as buskers when guests come over. And I got the new Michael Smith cookbook. 

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The truth about Christmas

My camera was my present from Sweetie. Remember about 6 weeks ago that my old camera died. 

Well Sweetie also got his present early also. It wasn't suppose to be that way but the way life goes he got it last Saturday.

I got him a computer. It was wrapped and hidden away since the beginning of December. But his old computer has been nothing but headaches on a regular basis for its seven year life span. The end finally came...there was nothing that could be done. I knew I couldn't let him suffer (and he would fret and keep trying with great frustration to make his old one come back to life) and I couldn't be around all that suffering either. So last Saturday at his breaking point- I made him open his present.  Now he is the proud owner of an iMac. He is thrilled. 

In hindsight it was great because he got a bunch of stuff retrieved off his back up hard drive and now all the old shite computer stuff was nestled into the recycling centre yesterday while we were out doing our weekly errands. Now my old desk top computer (I know I still use it for certain things) has the huge monitor that was still about the only thing still working from his old boat anchor.

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Today...in 45 minutes actually- we are going to C. & D.'s house for Christmas brunch. We really enjoy any time we get with these people. And this year will be extra special as D. has been very much a super human being getting his health under control from something that could of wiped him out existence. This is cause for much celebration today and everyday.


Enjoy whatever this day brings and try to carry some joy into each day that follows.

 

 

 

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Dec. 22nd, 2009 @ 06:28 pm What is your crime? Or are you the victim?
Current Mood: blank

 After receiving a Christmas letter of a relative's (and by extension all of relative's crew) year in review...I got to wondering what other think of this practice. Do you like these annual missives? Do you find them appalling? 

 

 I prefer a handwritten message in the Christmas card of one or two sentences rather than a third person account of a life or lives. I also would just as soon not get these types of letters if that is the only manner in which the person who wrote the thing makes any effort at communication in the course of the other 365 days of the year.


So people in LJ what do you have to say on the matter?

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Dec. 21st, 2009 @ 05:49 pm It is like my brain keeps taking a holiday
Current Mood: chipper
belated birthday wishes to the great [info]lilrongal . I know for sure she is a happy woman and is thrilled that her cuter than cute son will be with her on Christmas morning this year.
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Dec. 19th, 2009 @ 11:08 pm A room in Tower of Silence -in Washington State
 





architect : Steven Holl
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Dec. 19th, 2009 @ 04:59 pm Christmas Is Under Attack
That's right, Christmas in 2009 is under attack, so says Deirdre Reilly in her syndicated column that will appear in Sunday's O-D.
It's up on another paper's web site now: http://www.tauntongazette.com/religion/x1431154063/Deirdre-Reilly-Christmas-is-under-attack if you want to read the outrageousness. She has the gall to ask "Is there any other faith that is discouraged from celebrating its sacred days the way that Christianity in America is?". And, of course, that's the quote our page designers decided to pull out. Her byline includes that she is a humor columnist so I read the whole thing thinking that it was tongue-in-cheek, some kind of joke on all the people who have hissyfits over hearing "Happy Holidays" in the check out line instead of "Merry Christmas". Nope, it's serious!
I think I'm going to be writing my first letter to the editor because, seriously, she is living in some freaking fantasy wonderland if she thinks that people challenging creches on government property are trying to take away her right to practice her faith and celebrate her holidays. I am well aware that she's not from around her and will likely never see my letter...but I'm so annoyed! And I know so many people in the area will nod their heads in agreement with her. I'm thinking of just compiling a list of news bites of non-Christian religious displays being attacked and defaced as a response. Because seriously, how can anyone think that Christianity is the most persecuted faith in this country while claiming that it is a Christian nation, founded on Christian ideals by Christian founding fathers. It doesn't make with the logics....
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Dec. 18th, 2009 @ 09:20 pm The Elusive Jo/Joe
Current Mood: amused
 




This is a flighty shy bird.
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Dec. 18th, 2009 @ 09:15 pm The Path
 
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Dec. 17th, 2009 @ 10:46 pm with time to spare in PST
I recently came across [info]lanning here in/on/around LJ land. [info]lanning may or may not of friended but just on the off chance I was added....happy birthday.

I like the stuff that catches your eye, turns your ear and makes you respond to the world around you. Good and bad. Have a splendid year.

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Dec. 17th, 2009 @ 07:32 pm The Way It Rocks and The Way It Rolls
Current Mood: smiling and good
I was a bit anxious this morning as it was time to go to the dentist. Actually I won't see the "dentist" until the 21st of January 2010. Today it was cleaning time but it is to the credit of my hygienist that I am comfortable enough to book my appointment to do some small filings on my lower right back molars. I had what I would guess to be a panic attack (the racing heart and weird breathing gasps) years ago during a filling appointment because of too much adrenaline in the freezing formula. Anyway I got a great "atta girl" from the hygienist, one of those gold star moments (if you are an achievement junkie) because there has been great improvement in some measurements to do with my gums or something (all very technical dentistry science stuff) but I could see the numbers and people say they never lie. Huge changes in numbers. And is the opposite of academic numbers the smaller the number the better. All numbers we down a minimum of 2

I wanted to share some photos











I think you will figure out what we did this afternoon. While enjoying the following:







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